WORST Moves to Make When Dating Foreign Women
It’s no longer surprising to see men take an interest in dating foreign women.
Being the kind, affectionate, and gorgeous women that they are, foreign ladies never fail to attract men on several dating sites and international matchmaking agencies for the chance to meet them.
Many of these men go through whatever process is needed, all in hope of finding a perfect match among these exceptional ladies.
However, the perfect fairytale doesn’t always end in the proverbial happy ending.
There are still some guys out there who come back home without a girlfriend or wife, not even so much as being able to land a second date with the woman they’re interested in.
Where did things go wrong? What do men have to look out for?
There are a lot of dating mistakes men tend to make, especially when they’re trying to impress a foreign girl.
Yes, there are specific things men unknowingly do that discourage women from having any further interest — no matter how charming you might think you are at the time.
The following are some bad moves you should be careful to avoid once you start dating beautiful foreign women:
1. Being lazy and tardy.
No one likes tardy people, most especially on a date.
Foreign women who come from a different cultural setup would not appreciate any minute wasted simply because you’re trying to practice being fashionably late.
Showing up late to your date sends her the message that you do not appreciate the special event that’s about to take place, and that you do not respect her time as well.
If it does come to a point where you're already running late, then at least let her know of your reason some considerable minutes beforehand.
Remember, first impressions last, and being late is kind of the wrong impression to make.
2. Being too picky.
Dinners go hand in hand with dates, and being picky of the food presented to you is a major turn-off.
Not only will this be considered childish behavior, but it will also show how unappreciative you are about certain dishes just because they are outside of your comfort zone.
You can always pick a place where you and your foreign lady will both be comfortable, especially when it comes to the food.
If she recommends something from the local menu, be courteous enough to try it out first before passing a verdict. If it’s the other way around, be sure to ask her if there is a certain type of food she’s allergic to.
Encourage each other to be considerate of the type of food you’re into, while at the same time being open to each other’s recommendations.
3. Talking about sex during the first few dates.
Forcing relationships to develop too fast is a major red flag.
Foreign women may not share the same sexual appetite as you, so you must wholly respect that without further question.
Be considerate enough to avoid asking something that is particularly intimate, unless you’re already at a stage where both of you are comfortable about it.
Allow your relationship to grow with experience and time. Intimacy will naturally take its course.
If you’re still in the process of getting to know each other, be sure to take your time in doing so.
4. Suddenly staying out of touch.
You should not stop making an effort to impress foreign women after having gone on a few good dates with them.
Dating a foreign woman extends beyond dinner and drinks, and well into the connection you make thereafter.
She would not appreciate it if you suddenly jumped off the radar and completely forgot about her. It will only prove to her that you’re not interested in commitment, or in anything long term.
This is the time for you to take advantage of technology and go for online chat messaging or video calling. Make use of whatever communication tools are available so you can continue spending time with her even after your date.
Pay attention to the things you do as it will determine how much you’re interested in having a serious relationship with her in the future.
5. Being a cheapskate.
This doesn’t mean that foreign women are only after your money or that they expect you to splurge on them, but you also shouldn't be so obvious about being too tight with your budget.
If you want to impress a foreign lady with your personality, that’s fine. However, it’s expected that you’ll have to spend money during your dates.
You don’t have to be extravagant. A simple, romantic dinner will always suffice, but you can also get her some flowers when you meet up. Little surprises here and there would also be a good way to catch her attention.
If you cut your budget too low, you are showing her what your relationship would be like in the future. You wouldn’t want it to be a cheap and effortless one now, would you?
Five-star restaurants are not necessary, but be sure not to take the chicken-and-beer route, either. You need to have something worthwhile to offer.
6. Comparing her to your exes.
Dating foreign women is not a competition, so don't turn it into one by bringing up your past relationships during your dates.
Not only is this disrespectful and hurtful towards the foreign woman you’re currently dating, but it also shows her how you treat women who are no longer connected to you.
This area may be a tricky one to navigate.
On one hand, if you sing praises about your exes, you can make her jealous and think that you’re still interested in them.
On the other, if you narrate where all of your exes fell short, you can end up intimidating her and making her believe that all you see are the faults in women.
The best way around this is to simply not mention your past relationships, especially when the conversation does not warrant it.
Focus on the woman you’re with, and not on anyone else — past or future.
Making the Right Move With Foreign Women
There is no fancy trick to getting foreign women to like you.
Just remember that there are certain things that could be the worst moves you can make during your date with a foreign beauty. Don’t put your efforts to waste by failing to be aware of the aforementioned behaviors that might ruin your chances of getting her to fall in love with you.
After reviewing these, you will now have a good idea about how to properly behave around foreign women and make them effectively fall for you.
Keep these tips in mind and we are sure no foreign woman will be able to resist a catch like you.
